Tears at drop-off can break your heart. The good news: separation anxiety is normal, temporary and very manageable.
It's normal
Most children settle within minutes and adjust within a week or two.
Start short
A gradual start builds trust.
Goodbye ritual
A consistent, cheerful ritual gives predictability.
Don't sneak out
A brief, loving goodbye teaches your child you always come back.
Stay calm
Children read your emotions.
Comfort item
A familiar blanket or photo helps.
Trust the caregiver
Ask for a text once your child settles.
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Frequently asked questions
How long does it last?
Most children adjust within one to two weeks.
Should I stay until crying stops?
Usually a brief, loving goodbye works best.
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